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18th September
2009
written by Baby Catcher

Thanks for tuning in….what can I say since I last wrote that captures my world?  The honeymoon ended, the reality settled in, is still settling, and perhaps, at this point, 6 weeks postpartum…er…post arrival in Dili, I am adjusting.  I always tell my mothers (aka midwifery clients), “Just expect it to take 6 weeks to feel sort of normal again”; and alas, I am having this same phenomenom here in Timor. 

Hannah wants to share some news about her world: Hannah is enjoying killing mosquitos with the electric raquet.  Though we largely have them under control inside our house, somehow every night, we kill more inside our China Tour Tent (fancy mosquito net) before we lay us down to sleep.  She had diarrhea one day, but very minor: she complained about a tummy ache Monday nite, did not eat dinner, but I gave her my favorite gut remedy: charcoal tablets (equivalent to bentonite, but these were chewable tablets; Libby, you know the ones).  she fell asleep. then, the next morning, she had two good squirts, and then was fine.  Ate a little breakfast, and was back to her usual habits after that.  I am amazed this is the first episode of runny poop, as she eats with her (often dirty) fingers despite her parents incessantly reminding her to use her spoon at every meal. Not to mention the other germ ridded activities she is involved in.  what can I say: the girl is solid!  

yesterday I visited an old friend who works at a foundation focused on women’s health issues in timor.  they are starting programs similar to La Leche League, here in timor!  Believe it or not, these groups are really necessary.  Women here have misconceptions about feeding their babies, and we are in the context of haveing to boil water to clean it.  Imagine, making formula properly when you have to go to the spicket, perhaps a block away or more, to first get your water, then boil it to sterilize it, then make formula for a new baby.  You would think this would make breastfeeding so appealling that it would be the obvious choice.  But, things like, myths about colostrum being bad for the baby, thinking sugar water was adequate, or giving rice gruel at 2 or 3months of age was a good idea, these ideas are pervasive.  and perpetuated in families and communities.  So, there is much work to be done.  Once I get to Lospalos I will fill you in on the birth scene there.

It is almost 2pm Friday, and we are on our way to Lospalos for the weekend.  Our house is not yet ready, so we still have not moved yet.  However, I was given an orientation, so to speak, this week: organized a stock of medicines for resupply, met others in FUSONA, the organization I am assigned to work for (which is connected to the Protestant Churcch) , and reviewed some great documents about the clinic I will be working in, as well as about health in Timor in general.  Upon reading these materials, I am assured again why I am here. I have been training and preparing for this work for many, many years, though I did not know I would be led here, precisely.  

On a high note, last weekend we all headed up to the mountains: a 2+ hour drive, and spent the nite at sort of a guest house/community retreat center.  30 young women live there to learn and have a place to stay while attending high school.  Spending the nite with a cool breeze  , without a fan, and a lite blanket: aaahhhh.  Meanwhile, all you duluthians are beginning to prepare for another big freeze, no doubt. 

My ride is waiting, so farewell for now! Love, Moni

7 Comments

  1. sara weik
    20/09/2009

    So nice to read how you and your family are doing. Keep updating us! P.S. I won’t take “running water” for granted…we still don’t have running water in our house. Like you we have a hydrant right outside our door :)

    Take care.
    Sara Weik

  2. Libby
    21/09/2009

    Hello Monica! Warm hugs to all of you! Really enjoying reading about Timor and life for you there. Life sounds good and full!
    A neighbor came by with his tractor and is in the process of preparing our lower field (beyond the swing set/ raspberries) for a giant garden. Feeling blessed by opportunities to learn and grow our children. I am imagining all we will plant. Forest is sprouting teeth and has an insatiable appetite for exploring (and being held by mama– his main desire). We recently did a 4-nighter in the BWCAW… paddled up to Basswood River and explored the falls area. Benjamin ran his first rapid with Andy. River spent the trip naked tending to her leech and worm friends. I’ll try to email a couple of photos.
    We thought a lot of you. We hold you in our thoughts and prayers!
    With love, Libby
    (P.S. Let me know if I can get more charcoal to you!)

  3. cindy macaulay
    21/09/2009

    Hi Tom, Monica and Hannah! I am so happy to put you on my favorites and hear how things are for you. You are missed….. and doing great things!Who bought your house? The ladies that are living in it now are good Democrat activists and friendly – quiet – they like Brutus :) I golfed with Nettie today, fall has been beautiful in Duluth, I will keep up on your news and always send my prayers and hugs ~ Cindy p.s. Denny and I got married on 8/1!

  4. Davidlorene
    21/09/2009

    Like refreshing rain in a drought, reading your news is wonderful. Thank you! We love you and are so proud of you all. We are researching and planning our trip for the Spring. Tell Hannah Grammy wants her to wash her hands!Love, Mom Lorene

  5. Sarah Sawinski
    22/09/2009

    Love reading your words. I can envision you talking as I read them! No doubt your transitioning continues— what a beautiful (and buggy it seems) road ahead!
    Summer has finally arrived… in September, the leaves are turning their fire colors, the lake is warm, gardens finally producing tomatoes… and yes, preparing for the big freeze. We had a Celebrate Birth night. Me, Danielle L-G, Karen Bryd, and Katie Mckinnon shared birth videos and a dozen others shared full on birth pictures, stories, belly casts, birth alter items, etc. It was magical. Sully is sitting and scooting. Haven’t had him weighed since his six week but had thighs to match Kiera’s:) Kiera is enjoying Hannah’s clothing treasures. She feels blessed and lucky everytime she puts them on. “When I grow bigger I will give these back to Hannah”.
    Yeah for Hannah and her “sturdiness”. What a champ!!! When will she be starting school?

    Sending love, cool breezes, a high five for pushing through your 6 week marker, and sweet dreams.

  6. theszymczaks
    23/09/2009

    We love reading your updates! It sounds like you are adjusting well and are on your way to doing some much needed work with the women and families of Timor – they are lucky to have you!

    September in Duluth has been unusually warm – thankfully! We are enjoying our time outside, as we know that winter will soon be upon us.

    Your Hannah is one tough cookie!! What a wonderful experience your time in Timor will be for her. Our kids are doing well. Our little Sawyer started walking a week after turning 9 months and it is more like a run now that he is 10 months! Zoe started first grade and Kaia is happy to be home with mama! Where does the time go??

    I have to tell you that I was thinking of you yesterday when mastitis struck again – 7th time now since Sawyer’s birth. I’ve got the drill down though and am forever grateful for “Monica’s remedy”, as it works and I have been able to avoid antibiotics!

    We look forward to reading your next post. Take care!

    Love,
    Sarah Szymczak and family :)

  7. Kristin Swanson
    23/09/2009

    Thanks for the great update. shew!

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